Big Girl Bed

Last night was Tali's first night in a big girl bed. While most kids move to a bed somewhere between the age of 2 and 3, we felt she wasn't ready at that time. So when she first climbed out of the crib, we installed a crib tent. It kept her safely inside until it was time. With the move to the new house, we felt it was best for her to be in the crib for a while until she was fully comfortable here (and we had time to install a baby gate at the top of the stairs).

For the past month or two, I've been regularly asking Tali if she was ready to sleep in a big girl bed. Every time I asked, she told me now. So we kept her in the crib. This week, at almost 3 1/2 years old, she said yes! So Saturday, after her nap, H turned her crib into a big girl bed. Tali watched, full of excitement. As soon as it was finished, she grabbed a pillow, climbed in and asked for a sheet! For those of you who don't know, Tali would not allow ANYTHING inside her crib other than her security blanket. If we tried to give her a pillow or blanket, she would scream! To her, the crib was meant to empty, just as it was when she was a baby. So when Tali asked for a sheet, I was shocked and completely unprepared. We had nothing for her. I dug into her armoire and found a few fleece baby blankets that, if you put them all together would cover her.

The rest of the afternoon all Tali wanted to do was play in her big girl bed. She was so excited! However, once it was time to put her down for the night things changed. After H read to her and tucked her in, she began to freak out. He calmed her before she left the room but it didn't last long. One re-covering her (these blankets are so small that they come off when she moves - time to buy a sheet!) and trip to the potty later and she seemed to calm down. She called out for me a few more times but it was quick and I didn't go in. Then she fell asleep and slept through the night.

Before we put her down, I gave just one rule: no getting out of bed once you are tucked in. If you need something, call for Mommy or Daddy. Last night, she listened. But I'm sure it's just a matter of time before she realizes how easy it is to simply walk out of her room and into ours.


PS She slept until 8:00 a.m. (blankets curled up next to her pillow) this morning. Too bad Eli woke up at 5:30 a.m. Can't win them all, I guess.